When I say "No", you hear "Try again tomorrow".

Or so says the words of wisdom I got via myspace bulletin the other day. This is kind of a wierd post...I'm not really sure how to write this without coming across as vain - aside from me saying that this is just an observation and not a "God, I'm just so hot!" post.

My life is usually living proof of Murphy's Law, and in the realm of relationships, it's no different. When I'm alone, unhappy, and looking for someone, there is no one in sight. But if I'm in a relationship, or single and not looking, guys are oozing out of the woodwork. These past few months have been one of the first times in quite awhile where I've been single and perfectly fine of being so. But unfortunately, I've seemed to have picked up a few lonely hearts along the way, and to be honest...it's getting old.

So here's a question to all of my guy friends - why, when you finally get the courage to directly ask a girl out, and she turns you down and says both that she's not interested in you like that AND that her feelings are elsewhere, do you just hear "try again tomorrow"? I mean, there's nothing wrong with having goals or being persistant...but if I've constantly turned you down for dates as well as let you know in specific terms that I'm pursuing someone completely different...it's just a little rediculous.

I don't wanna lose my friends, but goddammit you guys are driving me nuts. I mean, yes, I'm flattered, thank you...but damn, seriously? Let it go. And stop stalking my myspace.